Blythe Ferraro

Blythe Ferraro writes about the small, specific things that make an ordinary day feel looked after. Nothing here is expensive. Most of it is about giving yourself permission to use the good thing on a Tuesday.

The Dish Brush That Made Me Stop Dreading the Sink - worth the upgrade
Worth the Upgrade

The Dish Brush That Made Me Stop Dreading the Sink

A sponge and a dish brush both get plates clean. Only one of them dries out, stops smelling, and stands upright instead of turning into a small damp problem by your faucet.

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I Stopped Buying Notebooks I Was Never Going to Fill - saying no to more
Saying No to More

I Stopped Buying Notebooks I Was Never Going to Fill

A blank notebook felt like potential. A drawer of them felt like proof I kept buying potential instead of using…

Why a Heavier Blanket Made Such a Difference - bath & bed
Bath & Bed

Why a Heavier Blanket Made Such a Difference

I always thought of blankets in terms of warmth until a heavier one taught me that weight does something entirely…

One Song and Nothing Else - ten minute treats
Ten Minute Treats

One Song and Nothing Else

Music is usually background noise to something else. Here is what changes when you give one song your full, undivided…

Why I Stopped Buying a New Mug Every Time I Traveled - saying no to more
Saying No to More

Why I Stopped Buying a New Mug Every Time I Traveled

The mug cabinet was a scrapbook I never looked at. I liked the idea of it more than the mugs…

The Grocery Run I Turned Into an Outing - making it an occasion
Making It an Occasion

The Grocery Run I Turned Into an Outing

A weekly errand does not have to stay an errand. Here is how I turned a chore I dreaded into…

Why a Heavier Bath Towel Was Worth It and a Heavier Blanket Was Not - worth the upgrade
Worth the Upgrade

Why a Heavier Bath Towel Was Worth It and a Heavier Blanket Was Not

I upgraded two ordinary objects in the same month. Only one of them was solving a problem I actually had…

The Throw Blanket Rule That Kept My Couch From Disappearing - saying no to more
Saying No to More

The Throw Blanket Rule That Kept My Couch From Disappearing

Each blanket felt like a small comfort upgrade. Together, they turned the couch into a laundry pile with cushions underneath.

The Skincare Shelf I Finally Stopped Adding To - saying no to more
Saying No to More

The Skincare Shelf I Finally Stopped Adding To

Every new step promised to be the missing piece. None of them were. What I needed was fewer pieces.

The Ten Minute Hand Pause I Take in the Middle of a Busy Day - ten minute treats
Ten Minute Treats

The Ten Minute Hand Pause I Take in the Middle of a Busy Day

Hands do a lot of unnoticed work in a day. Here is why I started giving mine a deliberate ten…